As generally known, men and women many times hear things differently... eg. A woman says: Phew! How dirty it is in here!!! Now, you & me gotta clean this up together! And what are your pants doing on the floor?!? You're gonna run naked tomorrow if you don't take them to the laundry right now! What a man hears: bla bla bla YOU & ME bla bla bla TOGETHER bla bla bla ON THE FLOOR bla bla bla RIGHT NOW!